Who is friendly with the work, that sex is not needed?

"My wife said that he went to his mistress, his mistress - that to his wife and himself in the attic and work-work" ... Sexologists know: most often lose their libido workaholics and careerists. Why successful people suffer a debacle in bed?



"Any activity inhibits the highly sexy, - says sexologist Sergei Agarkov. - The more complex spiritual world of men, the selective erection. And when the head is stuffed with the imperatives of important issues, blocked the mechanism of sexual feelings. "



It turns out that there was an erection, a man, if I may say so, should a little gaga, reduce critical of myself.


They love: YOU OR PURSE?


By shifting all their time and energy to achieve this goal, a workaholic does not notice how gradually declining attraction to a woman who recently had been so beloved. In an effort to assert itself in the management of other people in the business, creative achievements, the man pushes the intimate life of the second plan.


It would seem that as soon as he receives a painful blow to the service-return to the bedroom to find solace in sex. But here lies in wait and trap. Sexual disorders are often accompanied by acute reaction to stress.



For many young men who made a successful career, there are problems with the level of sex hormones - the stress of responsibilities at work inhibits their production.



Especially difficult, oddly enough, in this sense, people of substance. Their problems were exacerbated original intimofobiya when they think: "They love not me, but my money." There is tension, mistrust, suspicion - and all that suppresses sexual desire.


And above all, sadly, sometimes suspicious about the fact that the favorite will only need their purse, untrue. Workaholic, being by nature a perfectionist, picks up her friend on the basis of whether or not it enough to look impressive next to him - and gets to escort prudent doll. Yes, and how to take the time to find a loving halves, when the interests revolve only around work? This climber is rarely in a circle of friends, where you can find a worthy companion.

TWO TIPS workaholic, How not to fall asleep during sex

1. In order to overcome inappropriate odolevshuyu drowsiness, try a few minutes before sex to actively engage in sports. Even simple exercises will add energy and strength to carry a pair of poses from the Kama Sutra "and will not zahrapet 5 minutes later.


2. Transfer the sex in the morning. In any male sex hormone, and higher energy at dawn.

Sociologists have noticed that recently many young people lose their libido due to incorrect installation received from his childhood: "Your duty - fully secure the future of the family." Lacking the financial capacity to start a career, young men for so long trying to material well-being that they have lost years when we could be happy in marriage. They would listen to the latest and the bitter recognition of the philosopher Kant, who has remained a bachelor: "When I needed a woman, I was not able to feed her, and when unable to feed her, she was not needed ...

HOW TO LEARN TO LOVE AGAIN


Workaholics need consultation good therapist and sexologist. Doctors explain that it is impossible to draw self-esteem only from one source. Joys in life a lot, learn to eat them all. For example, periodically set about making himself off from all worries and spend it in the bedroom.


Known psychologist Vladimir Levy believes that the rest - work no less responsible than the work itself, and the man really knows how to work, and usually knows how to relax. You may have noticed that the celebrity interview talk not only about the creative plans, but what they have hobbies, they are now reading, which attended the premiere, which is prepared for dinner ...


The truly successful people have something to tell: they are working vigorously, and then just as vigorously to get rid of accumulated fatigue.


Full relaxation requires a special kind of occasions. Start to take care of it right now. Chronobiology, taking into account personal biorhythms, found that for most of us the most fruitful and sensual were Tuesday and Wednesday, September and February. So the heart and awaken the libido not only in the spring. Wait until next Tuesday - and do it!